1. Why the Rose and what does it represent?
Some people believe the Rose symbolizes the Sacred Feminine. We adapted this symbol to say that all women are sacred. In addition to representing our female members in the image of a rose, we believe the Rose is symbolic of couples exploring fantasies together. The coral colour of our rose is also in keeping with this theme, a coral rose represents desire.
2. What does On Premise mean?
For those new to Lifestyle terminology: ON or OFF premise are terms used by lifestyle clubs to describe where sexual activity is permissible. The Suite is an ON premise club, which means that there will be sexual activity while in attendance. But all sexual activities will be limited to the second floor only, if you want to proceed to the second floor, where all play rooms are situated, it is compulsory to wear erotic clothing or lingerie.
For your general information, an OFF premise club means absolutely no sexual activity is allowed of any kind while in attendance. An off-premise party allows for social interaction and mingling and usually arrangements are made to go elsewhere to pursue further activities.
3. What time should we arrive?
New members should arrive at 9pm for orientation and a tour of The Suite. Members can come as soon as the doors open at 9pm. We will not lock the doors, so if you are registered for an event you can arrive at your leisure. The club hours are always 9pm to 2am. We suggest you arrive early. Whether it is your first visit or your twentieth, it is always far more relaxing to arrive early before the crowd and let the room fill slowly around you. You get to check out everyone else slowly as they come in. You also get far more evening to mix, mingle and socialize. You'll meet MORE people with LESS pressure if you arrive early. There is no time restriction on play, play rooms are open 9pm - 2am as well.
4. What is the dress code for the club? * NEW: Jeans are allowed, however , sneakers are not.
The dress code is very hot & very sexy all the time. It is a sensual environment with a lot of flirting. Ladies dress to entice & men dress to ignite (Jeans that are clean and without holes are allowed. However, no sneakers or ball caps). The Suite provides individual lockers for your street clothes and your valuables, and we do provide locks. You can show up in your street clothes but you must change into appropriate dress code attire to attend our functions. We also provide showers because "Cleanliness is next to Godliness", but remember to please bring your own perfume or cologne because "Sexy is Divine". We reserve the right to reject anyone who's attire does not meet the standard.
5. Do I have to dress in a theme?
While it is never compulsory to dress in theme, it's always a lot more fun when you do - ask anyone who does! Most of the themes are so darn tempting to dress up for, but ... that little bit of hesitancy about whether or not to dress for the theme is what we'd like to help you overcome. With almost all of our dress-up themes, it's possible to bring something theme-oriented. Later in the evening, when you feel more comfortable, & see how much fun you can have, you can simply go downstairs to the locker/change area and slip into something theme oriented or more comfortable.
6. Do we have to join in?
Do you have to participate in swinging? Definitely not. We are glad to have you just attend The Suite. If you just love to dance, dress sexy and love flirting adults, are tolerant of others, and can be friendly when someone says no thanks, you are welcome.
7. What sort of people come to the club?
Our members tend to be upscale, mature, fun loving, open-minded and curious. But most importantly, our members are our best assets and we want members of the club who are fun-loving and respectful of others. Membership is non-discriminating as to color, creed, social class, education or income.
8. Why swing if you are single?
For single females, the sky is the limit. You have the opportunity for "the best of both worlds" and probably more single females would enjoy swinging if they were better exposed to it. For the single man, in order to be a success, you will need to be patient and easy-going. Socialize with the other members and remember that it is important to be warm, considerate, sensual and fun to be with. Remember all single males must be accompanied by a sponsoring couple or a single female in order to proceed to the second floor.
9. Should everyone swing?
Swinging is not for everyone. Often times the ladies will complain that their partner is too pushy and impatient and pressuring them to do things that they are not yet comfortable doing. We suggest that the first time you visit the Club just relax and enjoy some of the recreational activities and watch some of the members. After you leave the Club talk to your partner and share your feelings. We're sure that you will feel just like we did when we were first introduced to the fabulous freedom we experience at the Club.
Familiarizing yourself with this new found lifestyle is a process and giving your partner the freedom to explore the lifestyle at their own pace will be rewarding beyond your wildest dreams.
10. What if we meet an acquaintance?
It may happen and if it does trust your instincts, the club is big enough for everyone. To be a member you must respect all others in the club and you may find that you like getting to know the acquaintance a whole lot better. But most importantly please be discreet, who you see at The Suite stays at The Suite.
11. What if we have a little too much to drink?
The Club's Policy is to call a cab or Limo service for you. You may pick up your vehicle the following day. If a staff member determines that you have had too much to drink, they will stop serving you alcohol. The Club Policy is to refrain from drinking and driving. We encourage everyone to have a designated driver.
12. What is swinging?
There are several types of swinging or "lifestyles" as most veterans call it. We subscribe to the NASCA definition: Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome. Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of couples.
13. Are there different swinging styles?
Open swinging usually involves 2-3 couples or singles partying together and is very enjoyable for people who enjoy watching their mates with others.
Closed swinging is when two couples exchange partners in different rooms or settings.
Group swinging is just what it says, groups of couples and singles and is most enjoyable for those who enjoy exhibitionism and voyeurism all at the same time.
Soft swinging is kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person, literally everything other then intercourse.
14. What is "The Lifestyle"?
People who come from all economic levels. Every job classification, all races and nationalities are represented, though the majority are Caucasian, middle to upper middle socio-economic class, and married. The Lifestyle (aka, Swingers) are married and single, tend to be adventuresome, emotionally mature and have excellent relationships with their mates and friends. Single people are involved in the Lifestyle but not to the extent of couples.
15. Is Swinging Legal?
Please watch this news report.
16. What identification do we need to cross into Canada?
You will need a valid passport or a drivers license & your birth certificate to show the customs officers for entry into Canada. For more information on border crossing requirements, Nexus cards or border wait times, go to www.cbsa.gc.ca
Whether you're Canadian or American, we highly recommend applying for a Nexus card. It is a huge time saver at border crossings. Go here to apply.
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